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On the Other Hand is it Common for Women to Have a Decrease in Their Sex Drive? Part 2
In my last blog I responded to the first of two questions …
Is it Common for Men to Have an Increased Sex Drive as They Age? Part 1
Side note before I jump in. Part 2 will be my response …
How Can I Prevent Gagging When I Give A Blow Job?
According to a 2014 study in the Journal of Oral & Maxillofacial …
Which Taboo Acts Would Bring the Most Pleasure for My 50+ Wife if She Would Only Try It?
I really appreciate this question, as a sexual health educator, sex coach, …
How Can I Get my Partner to Open Up About Their Kinks?
If there is one thing that has the potential to make a …
How to Best Enjoy Intimacy and Sex Being Genderfluid?
Before I dive into a response for this question, I would like …
How Do You Increase Your Drive to Match Your Partner?
Let me start off with saying that it is completely normal for …
Is Oral Sex Evil or Dirty?
The short answer to this question is no, it isn’t evil or …
What Exactly is a Sex Coach and What Will You be Doing?
In the fall of 2021, I was entering my 18th year working …
Much Ado About Nutting…Early
One of the things my clinical sexologist colleagues and I spend our …
How Three Unlikely Things Came Together to give me Clarity, in the Shower
My brain and the Universe have two things in common, they both …
Happy May-sturbation Month
Along with flowering trees, warmer temps, and sunshine in most parts of …
To See a Sex Coach, Or Not to See a Sex Coach…That is the Question
In a previous blog I discussed what a sex coach is, my …
To Thine Own Pleasure Be True
How many of you have spent time at some point in your …
The Art of Saying Yes: Why Consent is Sexy
While mindlessly scrolling through Facebook looking for something to entertain me, I …